Have you ever tried to read a self-love book without the belief that your arms are shorter than everyone else’s, or your legs are shorter than everyone else’s? You may have thought, “what does self-love have to do with me?” You may even have said to yourself, “I don’t believe in self love books!” Well, there is more to self-love books than meets the eye.
One of the best things about self love books is that they can change your life. You don’t have to believe anything you read. You can learn and grow from them. They are not gospel’s truth handed down from on high. There really are no secret hand held tablets.
Self-love books are filled with great stories of people who found their happily ever after through self-help programs and self-help books. One book tells the story of a middle-aged divorced woman who was raised in a Christian family and went to church all the time. One day as she was about to leave for her honeymoon she heard a conversation about divorce. After listening to the conversation she decided that she wanted to learn how to divorce. After reading the book she was inspired and decided to pursue her goals. She married again and now has a great four children.
Books like this are not filled with secret sayings or commands. They teach you the basics of what makes a marriage work. In fact, self love books are filled with wisdom and common sense. What’s more, there is very little advice that is stuck in an outdated culture. Most self love books reflect and inspire our high contemporary way of living.
Many self-help books will get you motivated to make positive changes in your life. A good example is “The Secret”, by Rhonda Byrne. This book helps to take you through three steps to becoming self-confident and self-aware. The book also helps you develop a positive attitude towards everything you do.
Another book that may appeal to you in terms of self-love is “The No Drama Guide To Relationship Building: Breakthrough Communication Techniques To Win Your Love”. This book provides powerful insights into how to build successful relationships. It also explains how to help your ex feel like they really did get away by leaving you.
Many self-help books also include relationship strategies that you can put into action right away to improve your love life. For example, one of the best self-love books I have read focuses on showing how you can change your relationship’s dynamic without being boring or needy. Another great book focuses on showing women how they can regain their confidence and their emotional strength by re-ignoring themselves after an affair has occurred.
One good example of an empowering self-love book is titled “You Are You: A Powerful Personal Searches for Self-Empowerment,” by Lisa Nichols. This self-help book provides a powerful case study of how a single, caring, committed person changed her negative self talk into a positive, empowering thought pattern. As she notes, many women and men fail to realize their full potential because they are not happy with their current selves and therefore try to change them into someone they think they want to be. “You Are You” gives examples of how transforming one’s inner world through self-love really works.